Time is yet again flying by, and more than a month has passed since my last blog entry. I just can't believe it! It's now been over 6 months since I found out about Thomas's infidelity and my entire life changed.
Our divorce was final last month. The day itself was terrible. I think that part of me had hoped, until it was final, that he would finally realize what he'd done and do anything to make it right and for us to get back together. Being in court made me realize that would be impossible.
Since then (it's been about 3 weeks now), I've felt like a huge weight has been lifted off of me. I am still sad about the way things turned out -- I feel like I wasted over a decade of my life -- but starting to get more excited about my new life. I haven't even wanted to cry since then, whereas the month or so before the divorce, it felt like that's all I was doing.
Max, Calypso, Beeps, Andreas, and I are mostly settled into our new apartment. We've been here almost three months now! Our house is on the market, and there's been some interest, though no offers yet. Thomas leaves next month for his new job which is in a city about three hours away from us.
I found out I was losing my job right before Thomas confessed his affair, which added to my stress. However, I have found a very interesting new job -- have been there about 7 weeks now -- which is perfect in every respect except for the longish hours and inability to do personal things (like e-mail and blog) on my work computer.
All in all, it's been a very interesting, and mostly good, few months. I am trying to look at being single again as a great opportunity to take a look at my life, decide what changes need to be made, and become a happier person. I've found great solace in my family and friends, who have really stepped up and have been unbelievable support during this terrible time.
I still get regular updates on Basil, Stella, and Rocky. The first two are doing really well in their homes, and Rocky appears to be happy at the rescue. He's still looking for a home, and he's so difficult that he might stay at the rescue for quite some time until the right home can be found. I had hopes that Thomas would take him, but even though he could more than afford to buy a house in his new city where this would be possible, he rented an apartment with a no pets clause.
I've still been running, and last month took first in my age group in an ultramarathon (3rd female overall -- a couple of 20-somethings beat me!) I have a few races scheduled in the upcoming months, and have been training.
I've had trouble finding enough time to paint, but I will get back to it soon, now that things are settling down a bit more at work. I have no air conditioning, so it's been way too hot to knit, though I have projects lined up for when it cools down again.
I haven't been very good at taking pictures -- I just went through what was on my camera and they were all minute-long videos of my parrots that probably no one else would find interesting, so I'm not going to post them. I will try to get some new parrot material soon!
Hope everyone has had a great 2012 so far!